Is it wrong for me to ask my girlfriend to delete her exes off of facebook?
She is pissed about it. If I am in the wrong I can apologize and she can keep her ex boyfriends as friends
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dragonfly46 · F
I wouldn't say that it's wrong or right. Did you ask or did you tell her to do it? If you asked she can say no. If you told her, that could make her mad.
Been with my hubby for 40+ years, married for 30+ years. We were high school sweethearts. He has never asked me to do anything like that nor told me what to do. About anything. Even when we were very young.
In the end, you really can't control another person. You can try, but you really won't get the relief that you seek. If you are concerned about cheating and your gut is telling you she is, address that specifically. Don't let that feeling make you controlling in other areas. If that's not you.
If that is you, then it's a you problem, not her problem. If she's going to cheat, there is nothing you can do to prevent it. If she does, it's her problem, and you deserve better. Moving on. Find someone else.
Been with my hubby for 40+ years, married for 30+ years. We were high school sweethearts. He has never asked me to do anything like that nor told me what to do. About anything. Even when we were very young.
In the end, you really can't control another person. You can try, but you really won't get the relief that you seek. If you are concerned about cheating and your gut is telling you she is, address that specifically. Don't let that feeling make you controlling in other areas. If that's not you.
If that is you, then it's a you problem, not her problem. If she's going to cheat, there is nothing you can do to prevent it. If she does, it's her problem, and you deserve better. Moving on. Find someone else.
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