i have moments when i feel insecure and am like.. what if im not pretty enough to find love?

and then i remember if i reject/break up with men they send me pages of texts, or show up to my home multiple times unannounced, or threaten to call the police because i tell them i need space and stop responding to their texts 🙂‍↕

like girl, chill, youre being so silly. if or when i decide to date again i actually need a man to like me a little bit less ❤

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IamBack · 31-35, M

And that’s why Sigmund Freud, never cracked the question of “what do women want?” 🤷🏻‍♂🥲

Frostcloud · F

@IamBack i want men to not threaten to call the police bc i tell them i want space after a breakup and stop texting them back

IamBack · 31-35, M

@Frostcloud not all guys are like that, having a bad breakup with ONE guy, doesn’t mean all men are like that

Frostcloud · F

@IamBack my post was referencing several different experiences with several different men 🙂‍↕ what women want is non threatening behavior~

IamBack · 31-35, M

@Frostcloud that’s fair, but if it’s a repetitive pattern then where are you finding these guys 🥲

Frostcloud · F

@IamBack work, dating apps, out and about in life

IamBack · 31-35, M

@Frostcloud well it goes both ways my friend, I find it confusing when I have a great time with a woman on a date where she tries to prolong it as long as possible but then ghosts me on text and/or when I have several chats with someone where they ask me a ton of personal questions with open body language but reject me when I ask them out 🤷🏻‍♂

It hurts but we move on and try to find someone else, I do hope you find what you’re looking for soon!

Frostcloud · F

@IamBack i've never called the police on someone for not texting me back after they say they don't want contact, so i wouldn't say it goes both ways. and if you haven't either then this post isnt about you and there's no reason to make any defense for the men who do ❤

IamBack · 31-35, M

@Frostcloud not defending these guys at all haha I just meant to say the frustration goes both ways after bad experiences that’s all 🤷🏻‍♂