Why does it hurt so much? And why can't I stop thinking about?

So I have been texting this lady I met on a dating app. I came to know that we went to a same programme and studied in same college. It felt good talking to her and we met for a coffee. I like her and she also said that she want to continue meeting. But then she is now unresponsive. Haven't blocked me but no initiative at all and one word response.

This shouldn't affect me but I feel hut and kinda depressed. It feels dark and lonesome.

What should I do? How do I get over this feeling of being left?

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GeniUs · 56-60, M

Straight up ask just something like, "are you having second thoughts? You seem a little distant."
I think all people who try online dating have been there.
Chatted to one woman for about 6 weeks before she straight up changed her mind and said she wasn't ready to start dating again. Had somebody come over for a weekend which was great and I thought we'd really hit it off and then she mistakenly dropped that she was seeing somebody else- nope, I'm not playing that game.
So many different scenarios but I think it's time to look elsewhere in your case, if she cares she'll come back.

bill117 · 46-50, M

@GeniUs Thank you