Boyfriend watching porn

This morning I went downstairs to do dishes while my boyfriend masturbated to porn. I do everything my boyfriend asks when he asks. I don't understand why he needs to masturbate to porn. Could somebody explain?

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Notladylike · Best Comment

Because for a lot of men these days it easier to dehumanise women for instant gratification and the way porn works is that you often require more graphic content for the same arousal because your brain habituates to the stimuli quickly and this can cause some underlaying feelings of shame.

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@Notladylike omg he does feel ashamed at times and I never understood

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@Notladylike LOL

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BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@HeWhoWalks39 it's not cheating but disrespecting a relationship.

HeWhoWalks39 · 36-40, M

@BabyyBluee I mean everyone is different I get that.. but to me like they say communication is key So if I'm with a woman as long as she open and honest about things we could make it work as long she's not on drugs or sleeping with another man... But.. hope things get better for you hun ❤❤❤❤

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@HeWhoWalks39 you're right. Thank you. 💞

IamBack · 31-35, M

It’s an addiction, and it happens with men and women 🤷🏻‍♂ unfortunately we all get introduced to porn at a young age

Has nothing to do with dehumanizing women in that sense, it’s an addiction like any other addiction for instant gratification

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BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@IamBack okay thank you

IamBack · 31-35, M

@BabyyBluee feel free to reach out if you needed to

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@IamBack very kind of you. Thank you

SpoiledbratAshley · 22-25, F

Maybe see what hes watching or talk to him about it.

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@SpoiledbratAshley I feel wrong talking to him about it as he has a human right to do it in his own privacy and I don't want to deprived his right or upset him. I can't help what he craves. But why?

SpoiledbratAshley · 22-25, F

@BabyyBluee if he’s with u it’s not ok for him to do that

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@SpoiledbratAshley I feel the same

YoMomma ·

He's a sex addict?

BabyyBluee · 26-30, F

@YoMomma probably not. Thank you for the suggestion though.

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