Part of the problem for "perfect fits" is that people are constantly evolving What seems like an ideal fit today may very well morph into a toxic situation in five years
@Ferric67 Exactly my point. Thats why I put in ideas like delusional. I added insipid because I actually thought if there was ever a perfect match it would be "sterile, living through the millions of years, a laugh as close as any tears, living if you claim that all that that entails is breathuing eating.. " I'll stop quoting Van Der Graff Generator there as it get a bit rude but "Still Life" describes a perfect immortal life with perfect relationships and living conditons as being sterile and I agree thats what perfection is isnt it ?