Boyfriend advice required

My bag went missing in my current boyfriends house it had my apartment keys and bank card in it. I told him off for taking out his work stress on me I should just go home. He agreed. When it was time to leave I was struggling to find my bag and he called the police. The police made him scared and he offered to get a taxi home for me.

I called the locksmith to unlock the door and change the locks. costed me £150. Then he calls me a few days later to say he's sorry and he loves me.

Why would he unnecessarily call the police?

Should I go back to him?

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HootyTheNightOwl

Why would you consider going back???

MelancholicFeelings · 26-30, F

@HootyTheNightOwl Im lonely and I really liked him

HootyTheNightOwl

@MelancholicFeelings I'd rather be alone for the rest of time than shacked up with someone like that.

MelancholicFeelings · 26-30, F

@HootyTheNightOwl thank you for the advice ❤

being · 36-40, F

@MelancholicFeelings I understand that you're lonely and the thing is, when we're close to someone it is the hardest thing, the forces are into play, strong pulling forces.
BUT the situation sounds weird af. I'd say, let him know what you think openly.
Tell him how it was weird what happened, how he called the police and how you're now considering whether you'd like to continue with this level of unsafety and uncertainty into your Life. See what reply you'll get and try to pull back. From a distance you might be able to see clearly.

MelancholicFeelings · 26-30, F

@being thank you so much for taking the time to provide advice. 💕 Very helpful.

being · 36-40, F

@MelancholicFeelings sure, I hope it'll end up being either a nice thing for you ... or that you will protect yourself from a situation that it might be risky.