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Dealing with getting ghosted

Got ghosted for the second time by the same person. So I guess it's true, you can't trust a ghoster. I didn't do anything to warrant this treatment after opening myself to her. She knows everything about me and my family. I feel so ashamed to have trusted. But I'm not going to text anymore, only to get ignored.
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Punches · 46-50, F
If she knows everything, I guess you can take comfort knowing that things did not end on "bad" terms.
@Punches That's just the thing, I don't know why she'd do this. It makes me think we ended on unspoken bad terms at least on her part, she doesn't reply...
Punches · 46-50, F
@TurnAyWay If this is an online only friend, sometimes people just vanish, it is annoying.

People are pretty transient on the web. I think online "Friendships" tend to run their course a lot quicker than real life friendships.

It is annoying when someone ghosts but it is probably not personal.
@Punches she was an online, although not on here. We did have an agreement to let each other know if things have run their course and not to ghost, leaving another wondering and spiral with anxiety. It wouldn't be bad if it was a superficial friendship, but we knew each other for 3 years almost, mutualy confessing expressions of love, as sappy as it sounds. But you're right, people vanish.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@TurnAyWay I think it’s enough to know that they just can’t continue the friendship. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. I think it just means there are factors in the other person‘s life that prevents them from continuing. Just wish them luck and be thankful for the time that you shared as friends

But don’t trust them again. Because ghosting you twice is something she should be ashamed of