I am so over this guy berating me

@come2gether If you are suggesting "in person paid entertainer", that could open someone up to legal problems if the PD decided to do "stings".

It sounds like Ambellina doesn't need more challenges right now.

@DearAmbellina2113 You are pretty, even if the photos are enhanced, you probably are still attractive.

Men like all types of figures. Some men are particular, most are not. The only time a woman's weight would "probably" be an issue is if she is like 400 pounds. Even then, some men would give anything for that. But yeah, men are not as picky as they often claim to be.

@hunkalove mentioned phone.

For phone "entertainment", I did just a little of that in the past. You get all types but at least half of them do most of the talking. They get more excited hearing themselves talk than hearing the lady.

Some men do their "thing" quickly and hang up, some want to spend quality time, not even talking about anything "X" but just want the girlfriend experience.

SOMEtimes they will tell you their "Tastes" and you have to keep from cracking up laughing. 😂

@Punches 100% unenhanced photo

@DearAmbellina2113 Looks real good 🙂 Better than most women, or people for that matter, who are even 10 years younger.
When I said enhanced, we know a lot of pics are such, but your pics look legit.

@PalteseMalconFunch please tell me how to get into that?

@DearAmbellina2113 I sent you a PM

@basilfawlty89 I tried to sell feet pics, didn't work. Lol but thanks anyway.

@DearAmbellina2113 oh I'd have bought them if i didn't have financial stress the last two months and if I knew.

@TartanTorpedo you wouldn't commit though huh? Lol

@DearAmbellina2113 in a heartbeat given the chance I mist certainly would , I think your gorgeous and full of positive vibes just needing loved back that's all x

@Jessmari why?? I need this. 😕

@DearAmbellina2113 there should be domestic abuse shelters in your area that will take you in

@Punches I've been that someone more than once. I myself chose to go back to my parents or a friends house who welcomed me when I needed to and use available resources to help me get through. So I'm speaking from experience.

Basically you're saying it isn't easy for many different reasons. And you are right.

There's nothing wrong with a little motivational speech in situations like these.

I'm rooting for Ambelina. I find her situation to be really relatable because I've been in similar ones and I always come on here and voice my opinion to her which is that she should do whatever it takes to get away from manipulative prick who does not respect her because she deserves way better. Even if it does involve leaning on help from family at 40. Who cares. Shits expensive out there and family is usually more than willing to help.

@Notsimilarreally Some people may just not have anywhere to go.
I guess it is case by case.

I have no clue what I would do if I lost my own living arrangement. I do know this - I am not in a relationship so there is not THAT burden. I have life pretty easy and I am not about to invite someone in that might screw up everything then walk out life nothing.

@Punches true, maybe there is no friends or family, but typically when there is someone finds a way to make it work. And if there isn't, people live in their cars temporarily or there is shelters that are not bad in some places to help one through. That's the life of non wealthy people. I chose my car over a shelter when I had to make that choice but that's me. I did use their resources. All I know, is sometimes shit is not fucking easy to get out of one situation into a better one. But it IS worth it and you definitely learn valuable lessons from it. No woman should settle for a man that does not respect her and knocks her down whether emotionally or physically. 🧡