What is the secret to getting closer to your heart?

This

It's a rare occurrence.. I'll let you know if it happens. ;-)
Realness and non pretentiousness is a good start.

#5 scalpel and rib spreader

Generous touching and intimacy.

Thank you for BC!! 🤗

Honestly is the simplest things in life if you are interested in being close to my heart. Keep it real. Be loyal loving honest with me spontaneous sensual and affectionate and most of all be down for me when I need you most. But it seems these days the simplest things are the hardest ones for most people to achieve. Therefore my circle stays small

Genuine kindness and compassion

Feed me!

Genuine kindness

Being genuine

Honesty and clarity about what the person wants with me instead of putting out fake promises.

Oh my, so many obstacles to get to that point. Lol

When you get a nervous breakdown

Buy me a car.

Not talking till my wife dies

Bagels.

You have to like traveling, photography and cats.