feeling better about my decision bc he said he's been giving me space

and i said sending several texts a day isn't giving someone space. this was yesterday.

and he said okay.

and today he sent me this

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like if you want to be in someone's life don't do bad things? like mistakes happen but some things are actively wrong. and i want to tell him that again bc he doesn't understand but why do i have to explain it a 4th time if he didn't listen the first 3 times

anxious to block him and completely cut him out bc historically that hasn't gone well for me. baby steps here folk

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

You’re not doing him- or yourself any favors with baby steps. His feelings for you will only grow, making putting off the inevitable even worse. Have some faith in your strength to handle ripping that bandaid off sooner rather than later.

HootyTheNightOwl

That's mind fuckery. He knows that he is doing something that he shouldn't be - but he can't stop himself because he's getting attention from you. At this point, any attention is better than no attention at all.

You need to cut that supply off. No "Hey, babe, stop doing this", no replies just nothing at all. Act like you aren't even receiving this stuff. That's going to bother him even more.

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