Men, how/when did you find out she was using you?

The day i left her and she said there was no money in the bank. I had put £0000s in there and she had moved it to her account so i left with nothing

it wouldnt be fair to say she used me
cause i used her too

When I sobered up after leaving her.

slow realization

Never been used but, i've been used by friends....so called friends back then.

She bought a house with credit cards.

Nearly every time immediately. Doesn't take much..... you can "feel" it,.. see it, hear it, watch it. All you have to do is pay attention.

When she began wearing her own underwear!

When she pooped on my bed

The day she told me she was saving up for an xmas cruise to the Bahamas with her parents and expected me to pay all rent, utilities, gas, car payment, insurance, and groceries, I was not invited. I moved out that day while she was at work, I had the day off.