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How did you go about starting over after divorce?

Mainly for fellow divorcees after ending long-term marriages.

Marriage changed and challenged me in so many ways. I can't see love the same way anymore. Not in a bad way, but realizing it isn't enough.

Starting another relationship which may also end like this doesn't bother me. It's better to appreciate the moment instead of worrying about uncertain futures.

There's a future I want, with someone, though it is very uncertain. It's possible it may not happen in this life.

It's a rarity finding decent people. Feels like the worlds changed so much. Or maybe my luck ran out. Who knows.

How did you do it? Where did you end up?

Thanks.
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After my second divorce I did a lot of dating around. Met a really cool lady. We were together three yrs then split. Dated a few more before meeting my current gf. We have been together for 7 yrs. She is all the things I wanted in a lady. Smart, funny, beautiful, caring, etc.
Bumbles · 51-55, M
@YourMomsSecretCrush You seem like a good dude. Why the divorces? No judgement, just curious.
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Bumbles · 51-55, M
@YourMomsSecretCrush Very cool you were able to change and find the right person.
@Bumbles Thanks, bud, all we can do is try to learn from our mistakes and be better than we were the day before.