My best friend and I got into a heated argument because she thinks I’m being naive about my boyfriend! Wtf
So my boyfriend and I went on a date four or five days ago and it was romantic. My best friend things he only asked me to go on a date so I can pay and I’ve been paying for mostly every date and I’m too blind to see it. I told her he has been having trouble finding a job and he has payed for dinner. She cut me off saying that was two months ago. He’s using me. I’m at her house (spend the night last night). He FaceTimed me and he asked me for another favor. He wanted me to loan him 100 dollars so he can get a new suite for his job interview tomorrow. Why would someone need $100 for a new suite. He said not only that but he needs new shoes and to go to the barbershop. My best friend was like, “No she will not give you money for that!”
Then I said, “Babe, that’s a lot. Can’t you find something in your closet instead of asking me for money?”
My best friend told me not to loan him anymore money.
Then I went into the other room and told my boyfriend how he’s always been asking me for money and it hurts my feelings. Then he said, “YOUR feelings are hurt?! How do you think I feel having to asked my girlfriend for money? This my my job interview! Don’t you want me to look professional? Look if I get this job, I’ll save up, be a better person so in the future, I can have a place for myself so you and I can maybe live together. I love you.”
I felt bad and I reluctantly said I’ll send him honey and he said I was the best.
My best friend called me an idiot for sending him money and he is using me! I yelled at her but she told me I need to hear the cold hard truth that he is using me as his piggy bank, he doesn’t love me and there’s so many red flags! She said our guy friend is right. Never had a heated fight with her. I told her she’s jealous! She said, “Go a head, get used and thrown under the bus! One day you will open your eyes and see the truth about your douchbag, loser of a boyfriend!” And she walked off. I’m outside.
Then I said, “Babe, that’s a lot. Can’t you find something in your closet instead of asking me for money?”
My best friend told me not to loan him anymore money.
Then I went into the other room and told my boyfriend how he’s always been asking me for money and it hurts my feelings. Then he said, “YOUR feelings are hurt?! How do you think I feel having to asked my girlfriend for money? This my my job interview! Don’t you want me to look professional? Look if I get this job, I’ll save up, be a better person so in the future, I can have a place for myself so you and I can maybe live together. I love you.”
I felt bad and I reluctantly said I’ll send him honey and he said I was the best.
My best friend called me an idiot for sending him money and he is using me! I yelled at her but she told me I need to hear the cold hard truth that he is using me as his piggy bank, he doesn’t love me and there’s so many red flags! She said our guy friend is right. Never had a heated fight with her. I told her she’s jealous! She said, “Go a head, get used and thrown under the bus! One day you will open your eyes and see the truth about your douchbag, loser of a boyfriend!” And she walked off. I’m outside.
22-25, F
