I think i am repelling good men by my behaviour, idk what am i even doing wrong.

No good men comes in my life. Only bad men come in my life.

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

change where you hang out

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Matt85 even when i was in school, only bad guys showed me attention but they showed to many girls too and also they have very bad reputation. No good guy showed any interest in me, idk why, maybe bcuz i am shy and didn't talk to guys that much

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Matt85 idk the real reason why

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@sahi81 you got to start doing some picking and choosing for yourself

JediKnight81 · 41-45, MNew

I won't say I'm good, I'll let you judge my character, but I enjoy chatting with you 😎👍

Fertilization · 36-40, F

Think twice about your gatherings.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Fertilization everywhere i go same story, maybe i look unapproachable

daydeeo · 61-69, M

I think that somehow you are giving off vibes of vulnerability. It could be because of low self-esteem, past victimization, needing validation, any number of things.
But bad guys - predators - pick up on that vibe, and seek to exploit it.
Shut them down. Let them know that you're not interested in their type.

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

Might be the neighborhood

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@DownTheStreet 80% men here seem to have some control issues towards women. Some more and some less.

LifeIsShort · M

It could be a matter of preference.

Think about the qualities that draw you to someone, and then consider how many of those qualities align with the person [Bad ones] who comes into your life.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@LifeIsShort i think bad people are more confident and authentic and also overly-caring at first , on outside

ABCDEF7 · M

If you know who is bad guy and who is good, why don't initiate yourself for interactions with good guys.

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@ABCDEF7 there r normal guys.... they never showed attention to me when i was in school. Only bad ones did. Now only perverts do.

ABCDEF7 · M

@sahi81 Perverts will always give you attention.

Well, you have to look why normal guys don't give you any attention. No one can tell you without meeting you in person and observing you. So you yourself have to do that.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@ABCDEF7 yea....

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Same but i think its me whos attracted to them.

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