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Why men are like this!? Are all men like this

A man, he used to support women freedom. I thought he was nice.

But when i tried to be his friend, i started to notice he supports notorious cheaters and bullies, who cheat or bully girls for fun. He blame girls for being over-sensitive. He normalize and even enable bad behaviours of those men/guys.

He blamed women for not being free, over-sensitive and also called them over-dependent bitches for complaining about getting cheated or their man being abusive. He didn't blame the men who abuse women, rather support them. He supports bad behaviours of women too if they are in power. He blames whoever are not in power or weak in positions.

He had an history of bullying strangers because at that time his life wasn't going well, he was going/went through lot.

He seem to not have any value for anyone's rights, let alone women and also loyalty/relationships.

He treats his close ones ok... they seem to have no complaints even when he never seem to be their side when things go wrong but seem to treat them overly good and doesn't seem to cause problems to them or treat them bad unlike he does to others.

Most men i came across whom i thought were nice, turned out bad like him ! 😭

I am losing hopes in men due to such men. I am so scared of men.
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novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I think, sadly, that you lack wisdom in the friends you choose. Look for a new circle of acquaintances. Not all men are like the ones you described.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@novaguy2u how to choose good ones? How can i be wise ?! tell me
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@sahi81 Crikey! There is no short answer to that. Perhaps choose a different set of friends, maybe from work, or perhaps join a club. Bars and night clubs aren't the way to find people with depth, so look elsewhere.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@novaguy2u i met that person i wrote about, reading comics for fun ! Maybe bad people hang out where there is fun/entratainment.

My life is boring, i just wanted to have fun and watch movies and read comics 😭
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@novaguy2u maybe good people are at normal places instead of "fun" places
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@sahi81 Sadly I don't what to suggest. The world has changed since I was your age.