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Why men are like this!? Are all men like this

A man, he used to support women freedom. I thought he was nice.

But when i tried to be his friend, i started to notice he supports notorious cheaters and bullies, who cheat or bully girls for fun. He blame girls for being over-sensitive. He normalize and even enable bad behaviours of those men/guys.

He blamed women for not being free, over-sensitive and also called them over-dependent bitches for complaining about getting cheated or their man being abusive. He didn't blame the men who abuse women, rather support them. He supports bad behaviours of women too if they are in power. He blames whoever are not in power or weak in positions.

He had an history of bullying strangers because at that time his life wasn't going well, he was going/went through lot.

He seem to not have any value for anyone's rights, let alone women and also loyalty/relationships.

He treats his close ones ok... they seem to have no complaints even when he never seem to be their side when things go wrong but seem to treat them overly good and doesn't seem to cause problems to them or treat them bad unlike he does to others.

Most men i came across whom i thought were nice, turned out bad like him ! 😭

I am losing hopes in men due to such men. I am so scared of men.
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lonelyloner · 31-35, F
not every one is same but majority try to prove them they are superior to control us , I feel the same in my life while get close to few
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@lonelyloner yes, majority seem to feel superior to women... idk why can't they instead of honest conservations about their feelings instead try to prove something and in that process suffocate and disrespect us.

I just want someone who is respectful...

Some seem nice but hard to trust them after experincing bad things from men... maybe trust takes time to build.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@sahi81 i know
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I think, sadly, that you lack wisdom in the friends you choose. Look for a new circle of acquaintances. Not all men are like the ones you described.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@novaguy2u i met that person i wrote about, reading comics for fun ! Maybe bad people hang out where there is fun/entratainment.

My life is boring, i just wanted to have fun and watch movies and read comics 😭
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@novaguy2u maybe good people are at normal places instead of "fun" places
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@sahi81 Sadly I don't what to suggest. The world has changed since I was your age.
That man pretended to support women to get your attention. He's a user. We aren't all that way.
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KA9ha · 31-35, M
you are badly mistaken in your meetings..OR you have been coming across bullies,,I think you change your clubs or meeting joints..
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@looking4thesun oh well then change your lifestyle....
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@KA9ha not in all cases.... i thought a woman he is friends with that is she is bad too becasue she was his friend... but when she talked to me she seemed lot better than him...But yea what type people he supports and hangs out often shows who he is.
KA9ha · 31-35, M
@KA9ha its your own outlook who you meet... Do as you please... It was just a suggestion of mine
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@ian2watt in your profile... u are showing ur wife's nude photos.... how come that's respectful?
ian2watt · 61-69, M
@sahi81 because she agreed to me showing them
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@ian2watt ok...
HumbleGuy · M
yes. deal with it
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Why always men in your hit list?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Fertilization i am straight, that's why maybe....
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Fertilization and also men are capable of causing lot of harm , around 90% of criminals in jail are men. Women generally can be bad too but they themselves are not violent but seek men help and make them do violent things.
Binaural · 36-40, M
Ah the good old "alpha male" type *eye roll*
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Binaural who? him? I came across alpha male videos in yt, they look toxic!
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