i had a nightmare about my ex harassing other women to get to me
he kept going to another girls house to threaten her until her and her man tracked me down to tell me about it.. my memory is so foggy bc i woke up irl panicking about my dream and then panicking bc i never moved the laundry to the dryer, lol. but i kept asking her questions about what he's been saying to her and was scareddd bc it was dark and i was afraid he was watching us from the many cars in the parking lot. so i call him with a shaky voice to tell him to leave her alone and he slow-talks like a villain on the call. "ohhh, yes. i know what you've been doing. i know what you did. i know about snapchat." and i was horrified and confused bc i had no idea what he was referring to, i had been nothing but faithful in our relationship. so i didnt know what he was trying to allude to. but i told him id call the police. and then i woke up
irl this ex was incredibly jealous. i was telling him a story about a time i spilled the last of our grape tomatoes in front of my fave coworker and how it was soooo funny. but he got sooo jealous and wouldn't believe me when i said there are no romantic feelings between work bestie and i until i said this coworker is trans. which.. i would date a transgender person, but i wasn't going to tell my ex that cause it got me out of being yelled at for 8 hours. or another time my ex called me while i was driving a male coworker home because it was 10pm and his uber didnt show up, and i couldn't answer the call because i knew hed have a meltdown. when we broke up he would text and call me all the time and show up to my apartment unannounced
so i think my dream was a combination of that and with my 2nd 'stalker' irl. who wasn't really a stalker, just a guy obsessed with me, but it's what my friends called him. when he stopped depressed-drunk texting me literal pages about how much he loved me in the middle of the night for a couple weeks, i thought it was bc he moved on from me. but it was actually bc he was depressed-drunk texting another coworker/friend of mine pages about how much he loves me every night to her. nuts
anyway im about to be home alone for 2 weeks starting in an hour so im anxious lol. my 1st ex hasn't shown up unannounced since i moved states months ago but he does know my address and has made a lil jokey joke about killing me. so 👀 im anxious
irl this ex was incredibly jealous. i was telling him a story about a time i spilled the last of our grape tomatoes in front of my fave coworker and how it was soooo funny. but he got sooo jealous and wouldn't believe me when i said there are no romantic feelings between work bestie and i until i said this coworker is trans. which.. i would date a transgender person, but i wasn't going to tell my ex that cause it got me out of being yelled at for 8 hours. or another time my ex called me while i was driving a male coworker home because it was 10pm and his uber didnt show up, and i couldn't answer the call because i knew hed have a meltdown. when we broke up he would text and call me all the time and show up to my apartment unannounced
so i think my dream was a combination of that and with my 2nd 'stalker' irl. who wasn't really a stalker, just a guy obsessed with me, but it's what my friends called him. when he stopped depressed-drunk texting me literal pages about how much he loved me in the middle of the night for a couple weeks, i thought it was bc he moved on from me. but it was actually bc he was depressed-drunk texting another coworker/friend of mine pages about how much he loves me every night to her. nuts
anyway im about to be home alone for 2 weeks starting in an hour so im anxious lol. my 1st ex hasn't shown up unannounced since i moved states months ago but he does know my address and has made a lil jokey joke about killing me. so 👀 im anxious
