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I dunno; I think it matters less as time goes on, but there always seems to be a point where people don't quite have the same cultural touchstones to refer to with each other. I think the largest I've seen work for any time has been about 10 years. but I also tend to feel like if both people are adults and one's not overly influencing the other/there's not some kinda manipulation going on, it's none of my business.