I'm too dependent on her

She said it freaks her out. So I have to learn to live my life and have her just adding to it rather than being the central piece of the puzzle.

I knew I was too much. No wonder they always leave. Guess I should just go back to being touch-starved and lonely, it was easier that way. Got to endure the pain.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Or you could learn from past experiences, listen to what she’s telling you, stop playing the victim and set out to make improvements.

StygianKohlrabi · M

@OlderSometimesWiser you are right but it's easier said than done especially when your soul is screaming out for companionship

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@StygianKohlrabi Gotta start somewhere or you’re not gonna get anywhere. A journey can begin with even the smallest of steps.

StygianKohlrabi · M

@OlderSometimesWiser true. I think pets are a great start. of course you can't shtup it but it's better than nothing.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@StygianKohlrabi Very good suggestion. Anything to break the inertia and long held patterns of thought and behavior.