Why would my boyfriend not delete all messages with his ex?

We broke up for 4 months and tried to move o man she had a girlfriend for a month or so and he didn’t delete all the messages. I shouldn’t have went through his phone, but it was just there. I’m not going to tell him or bring this up. I have already done it before and told him and he wasn’t too happy, and can’t blame him because it looks like I don’t trust him. Also, he seemed to be more flirtatious with her than me so now I want to die, lol. But it’s my own fault.

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Ynotisay · M

Yep. Sorry but you're right. It is your fault. You don't EVER go through someone's phone. Especially a partner.If you don't have trust you have nothing. I'd be gone immediately and would never look back. You might want to get a handle on that next time. Good luck.

VentingQueen23 · 26-30, F

@YnotisayI know it is my fault I’m upset. That wasn’t the point of the questions…. I was asking if and one had any thoughts on why he wouldn’t have deleted them.

Ynotisay · M

@VentingQueen23 But that doesn't matter. He didn't want to. That's enough. How he interacts with you is all that matters.

VentingQueen23 · 26-30, F

@Ynotisay that is true.