Easier said than done!

How do you get over a broken heart? Not everyone believes a heart can actually break but I beg to differ. I feel actual physical pain as well as the knots in my stomach. The heavy feeling in my chest. The constant ache. The anxiety when memories can't be forgotten. The feeling of betrayal when you have invested so much time into someone, only to have them not treat you the way treated them. Not have the same level of loyalty given back to you. Why do people hurt people? Is there any justifiable reason to break someone's heart? Time does heal some stuff, but the scab always remains. Any little thing can pick that scab off and bring everything to the surface again. You don't ever really heal, you just continue and try and mask it, until the next betrayal happens and it resurfaces. So yeh just wondering can a broken heart ever mend?

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darkknightt · M

Pick up something you love to do, and start investing your mind and time on it. Gradually you will grow over your pains

rawandauthentic · 46-50, F

@darkknightt I'm trying. Slow and steady, but somehow it seems colorless. Without substance. Empty. Like going through the motions. I don't know anymore. It just is too hard to even think sometimes.

darkknightt · M

@rawandauthentic it's so encouraging that you are trying to move on, this must be appreciated. I can understand your pain, have been thr a breakup myself as well.

rawandauthentic · 46-50, F

@darkknightt I feel you. I think my situation is a bit different because I literally lost multiple people and have had to change my entire existence. The feeling of being betrayed is the worst feeling and makes you question your entire existence. Why do people hurt people though? Do they just switch off and just do whatever without much thought to consequences. I don't know. Still in the kinda confused phase.

darkknightt · M

@rawandauthentic I can get your point tbh,

rawandauthentic · 46-50, F

@darkknightt Life is so complex and complicated. I wish I was one of these people that didn't overthink and over feel. Life would be so much easier.

darkknightt · M

@rawandauthentic sometime ignorance is bliss, in my case as well, I think too much, care too much

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