Ever had someone try to make you their rebound girlfriend or boyfriend? I had this problem and they got upset I didn’t go along with it, I mean people

Recently watched a friend of mine in her first relationship with another girl and she made a joke about how she looks like her girlfriends ex and I was like "shit" but she was so in love I was like maybe it's not that........

But it was. She went back to her ex

I think I accidentally convinced a lady that's what I was doing to her but really it was just awhile later and I had a change of heart and personality and learned to appreciate her lol.

Still I was an ass for not appreciating her in the first place.

Nope. Never happened here.

Though I once had a more controversial situation happen. Fortunately I recognized it at the time.
She just wanted to get pregnant.

As long as we are both benefiting from the situation, it’s okay for short term. It rarely works out in the long term.

That's been a big fear of mine - mostly because I don't compete to be desired.

I'm either wanted or I am not.

well i think someone is always next on the table if one thing doesn’t work out. sorry 😞

Not a good idea until a great amount of time passes.

Definitely not a good idea

A few times, yea.

It hurts bad.

Been there and got done in.

Even in some of my relationships, I can feel the specter of the one before me. Too much baggage. I'd pass. A few times, I broke something off because her head was clearly in the past.