Ever had someone try to make you their rebound girlfriend or boyfriend? I had this problem and they got upset I didn’t go along with it, I mean people

As long as we are both benefiting from the situation, it’s okay for short term. It rarely works out in the long term.

Nope. Never happened here.

Though I once had a more controversial situation happen. Fortunately I recognized it at the time.
She just wanted to get pregnant.

That's been a big fear of mine - mostly because I don't compete to be desired.

I'm either wanted or I am not.

well i think someone is always next on the table if one thing doesn’t work out. sorry 😞

Not a good idea until a great amount of time passes.

Been there and got done in.

Definitely not a good idea

A few times, yea.

It hurts bad.

I think I accidentally convinced a lady that's what I was doing to her but really it was just awhile later and I had a change of heart and personality and learned to appreciate her lol.

Still I was an ass for not appreciating her in the first place.

Recently watched a friend of mine in her first relationship with another girl and she made a joke about how she looks like her girlfriends ex and I was like "shit" but she was so in love I was like maybe it's not that........

But it was. She went back to her ex

Even in some of my relationships, I can feel the specter of the one before me. Too much baggage. I'd pass. A few times, I broke something off because her head was clearly in the past.