When you long for an ex…

I'm sure you realize it's not fair for the person in your life now. If your ex gets his shit together, you're going to drop the other guy, but at time in life, people choose the person they're with, instead of the person they want. Surprisingly these relationships work quite well.

Well i understand how u feel but really if you dont lkke your current BF, you should leave him seems like your not over your EX at all and you need to heal. Idk how most ppll think getting into another realtionship is healing when really youre not if your still longing over an ex

Which can clearly lead u to cheating and your current bf getting hurt. It isnt fair to him that you're having these emotions and are probably still in contact with that ex and he's sitting there thinking its not like that when it is like that.

If you and your ex could never work out then i suggest healing alone, until your completely over him. Then finding another partner. Being strung along and always being someone elses second choice and trying super hard to keep them around hurts and sucks.

I am also in a same spot like shouldnt feel this or that , but we cant control how we feel. Mine isnt an ex but .... still wrong i know. Remember , they are feelings, we dont force them. It just happens. :/

I miss my ex. But it’s like this; if I drop a burger in the trash and still felt hungry - would I find a new meal; or go a look in the garbage! 😂

One of the better meaningful posts of the day. Strong perspective

Without knowing more finite details, it appears you two had a significantly deep connection at one point. Breaking up is never easy and harder when the bond is strong. I don't know how long you two have been apart, but it will pass. Sometimes, memories will rear their heads. That's natural. Just let it happen.

Unfortunately it’s normal, it’s impossible to forget what you had with someone

99% of times, they’re an ex for a reason. It just takes some of us a bit longer to realize that

Don’t let Ex’s trauma ruin what you could have with your current partner ♥

I know how you feel. She dumped me years ago, but I still like to know she's doing well. Her victories are my victories, same as it always was. Part of me still wants her, but we grew differently which is why we broke up.

You can always be supportive, just try to remember why it didn't work out.

If you know that this person is toxic for you then it is best to let It Go.

I have an ex that I long for....I'm in a long term relationship, but sometimes I want to be with her.

Why did y'all break up

God it would destroy me if my boyfriend was having these feelings for an ex.