Do you like embraces/cuddling when in a relationship?
Honestly, I can do without the sudden embraces IF i had to. But if I'm in a relationship. I don't want to be in one without cuddling ever again.
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JustNik · 51-55, F
I didn’t grow up in an affectionate family, so I’m used to my space and don’t require a lot of contact, but I would like to feel welcome to touch and I would like it to feel like a positive when it happens. He’ll often jerk away when I try to touch him so I just don’t because that’s crushing, and when he touches me, it just makes me feel self conscious. I try to let it be positive, but there’s always relief that it’s brief. The whole thing’s broken my head so much I’m not sure I could tolerate cuddling.
