My suspicions with this man.

Is there anyway shes actually related to him ? I always find it funny while in relationships ppl say cousins but if u had this cousin this whole time why didnt i meet them already and yall are just si buddy buddy outta the blue lol so strange. I would look into her more and see if they work together or how he could of met or if theyre actually cousins

If you don’t trust him, why are you in a relationship?

If you feel the need to go through his phone, this relationship is not for you. Don't torture yourself.

I have an observation here you arent going to like. If the relationship has sunk to the level where you are sneaking looks at his phone and feel justified doing it, you may as well pack your stuff (or his) and one of you find a new place to live. This is toxic now and its not getting better.😷

I would say there is a problem if you felt a need to look into his phone. No relationship will survive if not based in trust.

…ask him to tell you about his extended family… were they close growing up etc. And see if he mentions any such cousins 🤔

So that is a possibility. Keep tabs. Stay alert. There will be other chances. Discuss her. See his comfort level when talking about her.

What are you doing on his phone? People do have cousins.

Stay out of his phone. Don’t trust him the go.

Why are you worried? She is 43.

Most of the texts are from friends, family, me and work I couldn't open hers since he got out the shower real quick.

And you're just now hearing about this cousin?

You have deep seeded trust issues. Seek professional help.

Seems he has a guilty conscience???

Why are you spying on him? That’s a terrible thing to do.

I always say my sister is my cousin but no one believes me because her moustache is better than mine.

You and your suspicions.

Perhaps keep your hands off his phone. Wtf!!