The great dilemma....I don't want to have children?

In this economy. I'm afraid I won't be able to give them the best when they deserve it. My boyfriend and I have had a severe disagreement on this. As much as I really love him, I think this will end things between us. I'm extremely depressed. I don't want to leave him. Yet it's been an extremely rocky week. Probably the worst one. I feel horrible. I handled it very poorly as well.

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greensnacks · F

I'm sorry to hear about you situation, but you shouldn't change for anyone. If you do have children against your will, you'd hold resentment forever and even possibly resent the children. And they feel everything.