What would you do?

Someone wants to start a relationship with you but they dont want to completely cut ties with an ex?

So this actually happened to me and I walked away and decided to go no contact. They really begged me to stay and told me how much they didnt wanna lose me but no matter how much I'm in love with them and want it to work, I'm just not willing to negotiate on certain things. I will miss them terribly though

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SilentObZerver · 22-25, M

Honesty i think perhaps you are being a bit too hard on the guy.

To say he should COMPLETELY cut ties with his ex, is quite harsh.

Its very possible the guy not be having any amorous relationships with his ex, but there may certain issues that keeps lingering on from his past relationship, and which must be dealt with , thereby bringing his ex into the picture

I think you are taking too far!
And you may lose the love of your life!

Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F

@SilentObZerver you're still pretty young so I'll just give you the benefit of the doubt on this one. Yes suuuuureee, I'm devastated!!! Lost the love of my life alright