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What do you think of people who refer to their partners as THE gf/wife or THE bf/husband? Rather than MY gf/wife or bf/husband.

Ive also heard someone refer (more than once) to their partner as “my human”. “I love being with my human.”
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Shadyglow · F
Here's a perfect analogy (NOW I KNOW WHY I BELIEVE IN SYNCHRONICITY... Its really LIKE GOD TALKING TO US!!)

I LOATHE the expression "Have a GOOD ONE" you always get in any store. It once was "Have a good day."
But the change is so bloody SINISTER.

"ONE" means "your special day"

But the clerk doesn't know the customers. So who knows about anyone's "special day". But the PRETENSE and phony stab at "intimacy" is so blatantly insulting I could PUKE every time they hurl that at me.

Nobody knows if its my birthday (for instance) and Christmas comes but once a year, BUT THE CLERK IS SUPPOSED TO ACT LIKE SHE KNOWS ITS YOUR BIRTHDAY so she asks u to HAVE A GOOD ONE, even if you are not even celebrating anything and nobody ever cares if or when its your bloody "special" day at all..

So the disrespectful and sneering position is built in and we are all supposed to lap it up and never recognize the implied eff-u feel of it.

And just YESTERDAY I was kinda joking about this to some dim store clerk who actually said "have a nice DAY" and the fat trashy bi*ch behind him went totally batshit PSYCHO and ordered me to GET OUT OR SHE WOULD CALL THE EFFING POLICE

so I told her a thousand people I knew would be happy to BOYCOTT THAT DUMP and then I left. Laughing.

I'll bet nobody here really understands as well, hope I'm wrong though. But I wont try to explain any further.

ok that's it from me

ANYTHING TO DEHUMANIZE THIS WORLD A LITTLE MORE OR BREAK PEOPLE FROM THEIR OWN RIGHT TO MEANINGFUL BASIC REALITY seems to be the main rule.

and of course lonely people should ALWAYS be made to feel even lonelier any way shape or how!!!!!