Hard one.... You need to realise they are just "friends" while you get the special treatment ;)

I'm sorry that just doesn't sound normal to me, with her being a bad influence. It's bound to cause friction and I think he should be sensitive to that and make his wife his priority, if he's not already. There's a lot involved here.

How often does he see her? How close does she live to him? How often does she visit?

Tell him how you feel

Jealousy is a normal reaction, you have to ask yourself if it’s justified. Do you sense infidelity? Do you notice flirting or sexual desire? Is there a sense that your bf is inviting something other than friendship?

Open communication works best, if your bf reacts strongly to being questioned, it’s a red flag.

In what way is she a bad influence?

There’s a difference between jealousy and intuition.. if you feel like something’s off and that’s the reason you want her out of the picture then you should express that to him.

Get over it. You aren't his "friend". You should have no urge to be her. It's got nothing to do with your current view of the situation

well we as humans usually like others doing what we are doing.. so she might not be as bad influence as you think, just has stronger influence you may no longer have anymore.. so ur insecure, and see their ending as the only logical solution.. it is normal to feel that.

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