Have you cheated on your husband or boyfriend

@OlderSometimesWiser why?

@SilentObZerver Because when I make a commitment to be with one person, I keep it. Just the kind of person I choose to be. Honest, trustworthy, loyal.

@OlderSometimesWiser great i like that!


But has there been temptations?

@SilentObZerver Nope. Once I make up my mind to be with someone exclusively, it’s made up.

@OlderSometimesWiser having a bit of fun with someone else doesn't make you dishonest, untrustworthy, of disloyal

@BigImo Breaking a commitment I’ve made and cheating would make me exactly that. It’s no “bit of fun” to me, not in the least.

@OlderSometimesWiser it isn't breaking a commitment though

@BigImo What does it make you then? Does it make you proud for potentially ruining a relationship or a marriage? Does it make you feel good to know that you can without thinking of the possible consequences.

Your position reminds me of a song by Dolly Parton - Jolene

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@Stephie like I said: fun

@BigImo It most certainly is breaking a commitment when I’ve given my word to someone that our relationship is exclusive. I take my word and the commitments I make very seriously. Obviously we live in two very different worlds. And you’ve never heard the expression “my word is my bond.” It’s all about choosing what kind of person you want to be. And your definition of “commitment” and “fun” will never be mine.