Rant,sad,Advice!??? Idk….

So yesterday I found out that some girl at my husbands work gave him her number and he text her and he said they just flirted I couldn’t actually see the messages… other than the ones he didn’t delete at the end something like “I decided I can’t go threw with this I don’t want to break my family over lust” it’s the 3rd time he’s done something like this. Non the less I’ve decided in time I can probably heal and get over this I mean we have 2 boys together and I don’t want to leave him over this. After all people arnt perfect and he did choose me and his family over and affair… but I hate that it even come that close to making a choice… his coworkers were encouraging him and he even went as far as to try to download app hiders and stuff which is how I found out.

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

God Almighty it's happening everywhere .
That's why I'm single 14 years .
I leaned from a painful experience 14 years ago , not being hard on you but your gonna be always on the alert button with your husband , even tho you have your own family .
See I learned very painful how not to trust people .
It's after leaving me shattered .
A lot work build my confidence or any goodness what I think about myself back up .
Will I tell you where it left me ?
A psyche ward .
I hope it works out for you .
I was 29 when it happened me .
Your 22-25 .
At that age your still maturing .