Rant,sad,Advice!??? Idk….

So yesterday I found out that some girl at my husbands work gave him her number and he text her and he said they just flirted I couldn’t actually see the messages… other than the ones he didn’t delete at the end something like “I decided I can’t go threw with this I don’t want to break my family over lust” it’s the 3rd time he’s done something like this. Non the less I’ve decided in time I can probably heal and get over this I mean we have 2 boys together and I don’t want to leave him over this. After all people arnt perfect and he did choose me and his family over and affair… but I hate that it even come that close to making a choice… his coworkers were encouraging him and he even went as far as to try to download app hiders and stuff which is how I found out.

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in10RjFox · M

Mother of two at this age means that you married too early in life that makes you more reliant on him. But you have got the right perspective in life not to break up the family for lust

But it's not actually lust, but evolution of tasting everything that is trending. But you too have the right to see the world which you can exercise if you wish to rather than spending time on policing your spouse.

It's all an arrangement, where you can sit and decide a way forward. For e.g. you can say you would like to go and study for a few years and put children in a residential school or with grand parents or go for an employment elsewhere etc

Don't bottle up the feeling that you compromised everything for children and that you lost out on things, later in life.

Anticipate the worst and prepare in advance, as things are only going to get worse.