Rant,sad,Advice!??? Idk….

So yesterday I found out that some girl at my husbands work gave him her number and he text her and he said they just flirted I couldn’t actually see the messages… other than the ones he didn’t delete at the end something like “I decided I can’t go threw with this I don’t want to break my family over lust” it’s the 3rd time he’s done something like this. Non the less I’ve decided in time I can probably heal and get over this I mean we have 2 boys together and I don’t want to leave him over this. After all people arnt perfect and he did choose me and his family over and affair… but I hate that it even come that close to making a choice… his coworkers were encouraging him and he even went as far as to try to download app hiders and stuff which is how I found out.

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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F

THIRD TIME??
I understand you have kids and a family together but third time is a charm and it should prove to you now that apparently your husband is weak and lusts too much.

At this point think about respect for YOURSELF. Leave him, you’ll meet another great man, an even better one.

Bunnydisaster77 · 26-30, F

@AnonymousJSS I just feel like it’s my fault too… like I don’t give him the attention he needs cuz I’m always stressed out and in my head…non the less I’ve never looked for attention from anyone else……ironically when we first got together he told me if I ever cheated on him he would leave me no questions asked.

justanothername · 51-55, M

@Bunnydisaster77 It’s not your fault that your husband is flirting with a work colleague. He’s doing it because he knows that he can get away with it (only because you let him)