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how come sometimes we meet someone and just fall head over heels for them even though there are prettier people out there

come2gether · 51-55, M
You're young, you've got things to learn. All of us, both men and women, are initially attracted to physical qualities we personally find attractive. But to hold that attraction there has to ultimately be underlying qualities we find near to our heart.

Now, what also happens is, we'll meet someone that doesn't initially thump or heart right off the bat. But as you get to know the person, they align so much with the person you are, that your attraction grows immensely towards them.

That's a keeper.
Number5 · 22-25, M
@come2gether so sometimes what we feel in the start isnt exactly as good as what we think it is
come2gether · 51-55, M
@Number5 exactly
HermannFegelein · 26-30, M
I don't know, I guess sometimes it's just that they have a beautiful soul.

I currently work with a lady who I initially didn't find all that physically attractive. She's not overweight or anything but things didn't click during our first meeting. After working with her for 3 months, I notice her looking over at me more and asking me more and more personal questions. I think the other day, she wanted to give me a ride home. She seems to giggle at a lot of things I talk about even if they aren't funny. She still looks kinda dorky to me but there's something sweet and charming about her that I didn't pick up on until later.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Number5 well beauty they always say is the the eye of the beholder just pure magnetic attraction
Blondily · F
Because in the long run beauty fades and its the persin inside who matters the most
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Because love doesn't recognise traditional ideas of beauty
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Desperation?
Workerbee · 31-35, M
Convenient infatuation at that moment

 
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