why do some men last longer in bed than others?

kind of an awkward question but i just watched that scene from “you” on netflix when joe only lasts 8 seconds but obviously he’s really obsessed with the girl and i’ve had some guys last 30 mins and some last 30 seconds. i suppose alcohol could affect how long someone lasts too?

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dale74 · M

I've always wondered this question too because normally I last 45 minutes before my first ejaculation next one comes at about an hour later and then they're normally about an hour and a half apart. I know sometimes if I'm about to get off a little early I change positions so I last longer cuz I want to make sure that she has at least one or two orgasms before I do. The absolute best is when she goes into one of those deep orgasms and I go into one at the same time. The feeling for the guy while she's having an orgasm and I'm not talking about a shallow one I'm talking about a deep one is it just grips you down there like it wants every last drop.