why do some men last longer in bed than others?

kind of an awkward question but i just watched that scene from “you” on netflix when joe only lasts 8 seconds but obviously he’s really obsessed with the girl and i’ve had some guys last 30 mins and some last 30 seconds. i suppose alcohol could affect how long someone lasts too?

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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

My boyfriend lasts a long time.After he ejaculates it does not take long for his erection to return.On round two he lasts longer.I use my kegel trained vaginal muscles to squeeze his cock.He loves how tight I can grip his erection inside my vagina.He can go three rounds so sex can last hours.I have fwbs that last a long time too.A man that cannot last is no good to me and I will reject him.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@tallpowerhouseblonde i think the younger a guy is the quicker he gets back ready

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@wudifu There is that,and also guys recover at different rates to each other.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@tallpowerhouseblonde true.....the more fit you are the better sex

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@wudifu I do like tall strong men that work out best of all.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@tallpowerhouseblonde i heard from a girlfriend of mine she dated a body builder.....he could go three rounds no problem

hollyyoung · 18-21, F

@tallpowerhouseblonde @wudifu do u mean fit as in goes to the gym or fit as in good looking? i don’t know where you’re from but in the uk when we say someone is fit it means they’re attractive even if they’re not in perfect shape

wudifu · 46-50, M

@hollyyoung 🤣.....gym fit

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@hollyyoung Good looking and gym fit.A muscular physique.One of my fwbs is a champion bodybuilder.

hollyyoung · 18-21, F

@wudifu ohhh i see. in that case i’m gonna have to disagree with you then because some of the guys i’ve shagged that go the to gym weren’t as good as the skinny guys i’ve been with but who knows

wudifu · 46-50, M

@hollyyoung my friend says the gym guys climax way to fast but gets ready for round 2 very quickly