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Have you ever had your heart broken 馃挃 on here?

A wonderful woman and I developed, what I thought was a wonderful friendship on here, but about ten minutes ago, she basically said she wants nothing to do with me! I don't blame her, I can come across as "needy" and "clingy" but I try to be respectful. It was amazing while it lasted and it will hurt when I see her name pop up, I'm not gonna lie! I just hope she remembers the laughter and the tears we shared, I know I'll never forget our friendship. Does anyone have a similar story?
Primnproper56-60, F
Once within the first 6 months I joined EP, got taken in good and proper and that wised me up to the internet. Then I just watched and learned all the signs, the questions to ask to catch out the disingenuous ones. I have my close friends and I wouldn鈥檛 trade them for anything.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Primnproper That's really great you made good friends! She wasn't disingenuous at all, it was more me. I still think the world of her and wish I could have done things differently. I guess we all have those regrets.
Primnproper56-60, F
@WizardofOz just remember a good friend will stay with you in the difficult times as well as the good, or at least try and give you a talking to but not withdraw completely.
scorpiolovedeep46-50, M
Not heart broken but definitely disappointed by a few.

In not having the basic courtesy to respond but stop abruptly.
JustafantasyM
Been there, done that, what's next
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Justafantasy I'll give her space. If she doesn't come around, I'll beg, cry and plead! I'm not proud.
JustafantasyM
@WizardofOz don't know either of you, I don't get attached to anyone online anymore.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Justafantasy I'm sure I'll learn.
Yes it has happened to me. I had to reign myself in and put myself in her shoes. Otherwise, it would have been worse
WizardofOz26-30, M
@mindlessdrifter Yes, I'm one for taking responsibility for my actions and she did give me some warning.
Offthetop51-55, M
It's better if you don't play it out in public like this.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Offthetop I wasn't going to but it helps with the healing process.
Offthetop51-55, M
@WizardofOz I get that but you could be more generic about it. It took me five clicks to see who you were talking about. This is a breach of her privacy and is uncomfortable for others to witness. I bet you could write about your feelings in a way that would get just as many consoling responses without the ick.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Offthetop Only, "five" clicks!? WTF! I doubt people are that interested. That's actually disturbing.
looping18-21
there's always two sides to every story. i wonder what her reasoning for cutting ties with you was.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@looping I explained it, somewhat, on my post. It wasn't her, it was me, I accept that. She did give me a "heads up" that I ignored. I would do some things different, that's for sure.
It happened on Yahoo Answers.
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Gingerbreadspice I remember that site! I was never a member but would read a lot of the Q&As on it. Just when I was gonna join, they announced they were going to shut it down in a month.
Yep, and for some reason I'm still here
eMortalM
Classic move from them European girls here hunting for sugar daddy.
chasingThursday36-40, M
More than once unfortunately
Your... profile says you're married
WizardofOz26-30, M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP We weren't lover's! Lol We just had a friendship.
SW-User
Impossible

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Sorry to hear that happened to you.

It鈥檚 never happened to me because i kept my feet on the ground even when my head was in the clouds.

Besides genuine people don鈥檛 do that so consider yourself lucky to be rid of it
Hanginginthere31-35, M
Nope I鈥檓 not a fan of online relationships
WizardofOz26-30, M
@Hanginginthere It really wasn't a "relationship", just a good friendship.
Hanginginthere31-35, M
@WizardofOz even with that, id rather make real friends in person
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WizardofOz26-30, M
@iamonfire696 Thank you, that's very nice.

 
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