Why am I always the bad guy?

My wife and I don't fight often, but whenever we do, no matter who was wrong or right, I always end up being the one to apologize. Usually not a problem, as I just want the fight to end and for both of us to move on. But I'm starting to get tired of it. Neither of us are perfect, but it seems difficult for her to accept that sometimes she is the problem and it's not always me. I can't have this conversation without her getting upset; finally just tried to and she's locked herself in our room. How would you recommend I approach this with her? I can't just keep taking the blame all the time anymore.

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Hi My friend I'll tell you something very important .
It's ok for women to hold onto things but for men it eats them alive .
Why is it easy for women (not trying to frighten you) cause the door is always open for another man .
That's it in a nutshell .
Women can afford the attention .
Men can't and that's not being biased.
I'm not trying frighten you but why do I think women get more praise than men and all the lovely comments cause they know they can get away with it .
There not as insecure . That's why they can move on straight away . That's why you apologize all the time .
I nearly had to say sorry for my existence.
That's how bad I went .
Do you know where it left me ?
In a pysche ward wanted to die .
I'd catch that in the bud my friend or else it could bring you down a road of desperation and pain .
I know your married and like things going good for you which I wish they do ,but my friend watch the insecurities around her or else you be wiped out