What are the red flags/deal breakers that you don't want in a relationship?

For me, it's DEFINITELY women with an OnlyFans account. From what I've heard and what I've seen, it's best and safe to say that it's a turn off and I stay clear of them. I'm sure most guys wouldn't like this, either. It's a boundary that a woman I want to be with shouldn't cross, as she'll only get ONE chance to respect it. One...

And if I were to be with her and find out that she has OnlyFans, I'll give her the ultimatum: lose the account, or you'll lose me.

Last time I asked this question, I got a lot of backlash because of this deal breaker: dating single moms. I guess a guy's preference, with logical reasons, are red flags apparently. 🤦🏾‍♂️

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WizardofOz · 26-30, M

A girl that constantly asks questions about me but gets evasive when I ask her a question. There are a lot more "hypothetical" things that are far worse but this is actually something I experienced. It was weird and made think she was hiding something.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@WizardofOz I picked up that if a girl is hiding something, she'll probably gaslight you and say that you're being paranoid or insecure. Evasion is another one.

WizardofOz · 26-30, M

@xSiFiGamer2016x Excellent point! I actually told her that I've answered all her questions, so why won't she answer mine? I jokingly said, "are you hiding something? Like a murder conviction"? She didn't even crack a smile, all she said was, "my life just isn't interesting". Strange!

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@WizardofOz Harmless jokes nowadays are offensive to others, but it wouldn't hurt to crack a smile. And it is strange for her to not answer and saying her life isn't interesting. Maybe she's saying her life is boring? 🤔