How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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helenS · 36-40, F

I shaved my head, because I wanted a total restart.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@helenS fresh start

helenS · 36-40, F

@wudifu Yes that's what it was. I felt clean again. I had to realize I'm simply not made for marriage.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@helenS good point

in10RjFox · M

@helenS Then why not bring down the system and seek an alternative. Why should every one go through it, and later realize that one is not made for it. If it was mandatory for both to stipulate expectations as a document and enter into an MOU before the wedding, what would you have specified as expectation ?

Why allow everyone to marry and then struggle to withdraw from marriage ?

helenS · 36-40, F

@in10RjFox Most married people are quite happy, I'd think.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@helenS or they act really well infront of others

in10RjFox · M

@helenS As if they came and told you that they are happy .. 😀

So you are sacrificing your life for others ?

My question is to know your expectations of marriage, before your wedding ? Or just got mislead by those happy couples ?

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