How did it feel when u got divorced ?

Were u sad , happy , frustrated , missing him or her straight after , thinking it was a mistake even thinking you will be lonely and alone for a long time after ?

What was your reaction ?
Did u do everything u can to safe your marraige ?

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GeniUs · 56-60, M

Relief but getting the 'financial settlement'* sorted was much better even though I got my ass kicked.

* Equal division of resources.
It most certainly was not equal and I had provided about 80% of them.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@GeniUs hectic......im not really concerned about what she wants and takes kids all are adults but we been together close to 30 yrs

GeniUs · 56-60, M

@wudifu I was concerned I would be alone for the rest of my life I was 38 (near enough) when we split but it turns out there are just as many women with the same concerns out there looking for a man. And some of them are really nice people much nicer than either of the women I married. It's 20 years later this year (I should throw a party) and I haven't looked back and if the truth be known I was finally able to really enjoy my life.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@GeniUs are u remarried ?

GeniUs · 56-60, M

@wudifu No I couldn't do it again, each time I would lose money and step further away from retirement. (Nobody should work until they are no longer physically able.) I do have a long term partner I have a saying about our relationship, "I can put up with her shit and she can put up with mine."