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I am not qualified to answer this. My ex-wife used sex as a weapon and withheld it unless the moon stars and planets were all in alignment with her mood, until she found herself a new soul mate.

I have been divorced and single since May 4th, 2007, and quit dating 10 years ago for the same BS I had when I was married.

So, I am not qualified to answer this question.