I was talking to this guy who…

admitted to being a sadist. He seems well-rounded & respectful otherwise. Red flag, no?
I mean at least he was honest & direct about it.
I dunno why I keep attracting those types tbh.

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I had sadistic friends. They kept it in their bedroom so I had never had any issue with them. Both educated, both very serious about the consent. I used to crush on both at some point but then it clearly turned out that none of them would be a good match for me. 😀 I assume that one is married at this point and I lost connection with the other. Which is a pity because he was an interesting person and I liked him. It's possible he was sado-masochistic actually.

I wonder what kind of relationship did you have with the guy because I was a very good friend with these guys before we discussed these things. I assume it's not something you'd tell someone without knowing them well enough to know they wouldn't start freaking out and scream the bloody murder.