I was talking to this guy who…

admitted to being a sadist. He seems well-rounded & respectful otherwise. Red flag, no?
I mean at least he was honest & direct about it.
I dunno why I keep attracting those types tbh.

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Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

Is better that he admits it a lot of people who have bdsm interest have an interest in it or the other side, masochism. The next thing you need to liik at is are they a narissist if they are both a narissists and a sadist now we might have a red flag.

SW-User

I think sadism & narcissism might overlap, yes? @Subsumedpat

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

@SW-User They dont always, you can have a guy who is still empathetic but is aroused by the thought of domination, control, and sadism. Of course narcissists can be charming at first so that you dont notice.