I was talking to this guy who…

admitted to being a sadist. He seems well-rounded & respectful otherwise. Red flag, no?
I mean at least he was honest & direct about it.
I dunno why I keep attracting those types tbh.

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JonUK31 · 36-40, M

Doesn't sound like a red flag. He was honest/upfront about what he wants.

You can either go with him or run for the hills - either way you know he's honest which is a big thing.

SW-User

Yes. I had to give him credit for the early confession. Still, sadists are potentially dangerous in my opinion. @JonUK31

JonUK31 · 36-40, M

@SW-User In which case run for the hills.. Fair play to him for telling you early on and giving you the choice before you get too involved.