@morrgin But talk with a legal professional; I bet he already has gone / made arrangements to go see a lawyer.

You gave away part of your possible plan. If he has already used you, this is next!

@SomeMichGuy he knows from watching his dad that sometimes women leave and take everything with them. He believes there is no way to fight it or defend against it. He's never really figured out they were hurt and left for a reason - his dad's cheating

@morrgin If you didn't know he was cheating, perhaps your model of other aspects of his life might be flawed.

Just be very careful, ok?

@Elisbch I know he loves me very much and deeply, he just doesn't know how to do it right.

@morrgin.. that's very frustrating and probably hurtful too. Only you know, but to me, cheating isn't telling a partner they love them...(sorry) I don't think you'll ever treat easy not knowing if he's being faithful. Therapy comes to mind but I also know that's expensive and both partners need to be willing. I hope your can see your way thru this without getting hurt. 🙏🏻

@whowasthatmaskedman we show people how to treat us. I'm only now learning about how to be assertive, set boundaries, and more recently - responding and not reacting

@morrgin Sadly thats close to the truth. I am tempted to say that woman tend to be lousy at picking men. But I know thats not always the case and also that men are equally lousy at choosing women..Maybe if we met as people first it might work out better. But I cant be sure.😷

@Kitsunex Even happy people cheat, even people in open relationships cheat, and yes some do it because they think they're getting something better and sometimes they actually do. So many things I've believed are one way or the other way with nothing in between

@morrgin tale between their legs when it's simply the truth
Cheaters, like bullies, are fueled by power, and drawn to risk. This kind of behavior, however, is a reflection of something deeply rooted inside of them. "In truth," Wish told INSIDER, " [cheaters] are deeply insecure people who feel flawed, unloved, angry, and, ironically, robbed of something that they needed emotionally in life as a child."

@Kitsunex his mother abandoned him in the hospital, and he was mostly raised by his grandmother who had a bully husband. His own dad was an alcoholic, logger, and did his best but cheated on his wives with all the gaslighting to them that came with it. He was with his dad when his dad and uncle were attacked by a few people over a complicated small logging town relationship drama dispute that had gotten out of hand. And his dad was stabbed with a knife in his side. He was about 10 or 12 years old but drove his dad to the hospital. His dad lived thanks to his thick jacket that stopped the knife from going deeper. After that the people that had attacked his family decided to harass, threaten, and stalk him. They even held a gun to his head. Eventually he didn't care if he lived or died and I believe this is part of how he became a bully himself. He kept all of it to himself. He's only now getting help with his PTSD and the schizophrenic type symptoms that are a part of it. Life can be so complicated sometimes.

@Kirin4OTK lol I liked the filter and maybe I don't care about appearance as much as I used to. I really don't anymore at least not my own

@Hanginginthere Because sometimes it can be overcome and an even better relationship comes out of it. I won't forgive him for it. I can move on from it, but he would have to do his part in order for me to do that. At this point I don't think he even sees a problem

@morrgin I don’t think so, how do you know he won’t cheat on you again? Don’t you think you deserve better? That couldn’t be me.

@Hanginginthere how do I know he won't ? How do I know he isn't planning it right now, it's part of excitement for cheaters, the planning and secrecy. I dont

@beermeplease i will always give it another shot , until I dont