It's easy to spot the other person's red flag, but can you spot yours in a relationship?

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sugarpie · 26-30, F

I used to be very careful when I was in a relationship. I don't even speak with other guys. But I felt it was useless. No one really reciprocate it. Once they know how good you can be in a relationship, they take advantage of it. So I always leave quietly.

Today, I don't have any plans to enter a relationship. I think if I do, I'll be the big red flag.

theyellowkeys · 26-30, F

@sugarpie Do you mean men can't do the same in a relationship where they don't speak to other women?

sugarpie · 26-30, F

@theyellowkeys nope, not all. But in my experience/past relationships, yes. I do believe in the existence of good guys. But in my experience, my exes tends to be very complacent because they know I'm loyal asf