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It's easy to spot the other person's red flag, but can you spot yours in a relationship?

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
No it's not easy to spot the others red flags. Especially when dealing with a world full of fanatics.

Which fanaticism is the lesser fanatic? 🤷🏻‍♂️
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@DeWayfarer

My answer, too... but u said it better.
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Madmonk · M
Yeah me being in a relationship is a HUGE red flag
Madmonk · M
@theyellowkeys I’m not available for such entanglements. It’s just a bad idea all around
theyellowkeys · 26-30, F
@Madmonk hmmmmm
Madmonk · M
@theyellowkeys indeed.
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But it isn't easy to spot the other person's red flag so that's mine, I suppose.
BigImo · 26-30, F
I always feel like I'm too good for them and they haven't done enough to earn my love
Mudkip · 31-35, M
I've always been mindful of flaws, even in my past relationships
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@theyellowkeys what about you?
theyellowkeys · 26-30, F
@Mudkip Me too. I think I am quite self-aware because I do accept them and try to work on them instead of walking away and think I'm already the best.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@theyellowkeys that's great. Acknowledging our own flaws is good
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I can, but I still can't figure out what it is exactly. I don't know if I'm afraid or if I just haven't met the right person yet.
sugarpie · 26-30, F
I used to be very careful when I was in a relationship. I don't even speak with other guys. But I felt it was useless. No one really reciprocate it. Once they know how good you can be in a relationship, they take advantage of it. So I always leave quietly.

Today, I don't have any plans to enter a relationship. I think if I do, I'll be the big red flag.
theyellowkeys · 26-30, F
@sugarpie Do you mean men can't do the same in a relationship where they don't speak to other women?
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@theyellowkeys nope, not all. But in my experience/past relationships, yes. I do believe in the existence of good guys. But in my experience, my exes tends to be very complacent because they know I'm loyal asf
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Lack of achievements/ambition
Richard65 · M
No, I'm a catch.
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My red flag is my brain to mouth orientation, it’s amazing how I can say something without my brain even knowing I will say it lol
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Katie01 · F
I can be very toxic and manipulative when I'm annoyed or bored

 
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