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Adogslife · 61-69, M
I’ve cheated.
It’s not a rationalization. It’s a reality. I lived for ages with a wife that was frigid - clinically a sexless marriage. In my case, sex would’ve been measured quarterly or perhaps annually. Albeit beyond her mental control, should you choose to believe that, it’s still cruel to a healthy partner.
Women see that and pursue you. It’s not uncommon if you’re successful, well dressed, kind and have an outwardly effusive outlook on life. I’m my case, a very attractive woman chose to show me what I was missing and it was an eye opener.
Although I chose not to marry her, I did get divorced a decade or so later. My wife and I had a discussion about her allowing an open marriage or divorce. She chose divorce.
There are no hard feelings on my part. She’s a wonderful mother and a very very kind person.
Six years hence, I‘ve remarried and am happier than I’ve ever been.
It probably doesn’t fit the agenda of most, but for me the affair was a wonderful, life changing experience.
It’s not a rationalization. It’s a reality. I lived for ages with a wife that was frigid - clinically a sexless marriage. In my case, sex would’ve been measured quarterly or perhaps annually. Albeit beyond her mental control, should you choose to believe that, it’s still cruel to a healthy partner.
Women see that and pursue you. It’s not uncommon if you’re successful, well dressed, kind and have an outwardly effusive outlook on life. I’m my case, a very attractive woman chose to show me what I was missing and it was an eye opener.
Although I chose not to marry her, I did get divorced a decade or so later. My wife and I had a discussion about her allowing an open marriage or divorce. She chose divorce.
There are no hard feelings on my part. She’s a wonderful mother and a very very kind person.
Six years hence, I‘ve remarried and am happier than I’ve ever been.
It probably doesn’t fit the agenda of most, but for me the affair was a wonderful, life changing experience.