Am I making a big deal?

I have been chatting with a guy for about two weeks and long story short today I asked him when is the last time he has been on a date and he said just last night I met with someone for a coffee date. I was not expecting for him to say that and anywho it really triggered me because I thought it was kind rude even though I asked he was honest. I dunno I guess I would have just not said anything about it.

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Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

Thankfully he’s honest, that’s a good sign! If you’re only in the talking stage him going on dates is normal and you should be too. I know it’s hard and confusing and in ways it sucks but until you start spending time together and have some pertinent conversations about the 2 of you, this is what is going to happen.
You have here to vent to when you’re feeling a certain way about it though.